妹妹的最愛 I Ching Hexagram #2

2: The Receptive

Great receptivity attracts exceptional results. The natural responsiveness of pure Yin energy brings about success through support and perseverance, rather than through bold action. Thus, the wise person demonstrates strength like a powerful but gentle mare. This hexagram, consisting of all yin lines, represents a power of the feminine principle no longer honored in our modern world, but such receptivity is most auspicious.

The receptive force is sensual as well as powerful, and it can be missed by too much talk and planning. When spring comes, does the grass plan to grow? This is a time to concentrate on realities rather than potentials — how to respond to a situation rather than how to direct it. A mature mare lets herself be guided, and is skilled at graceful acceptance. In a strong spiritual way, her quiet contribution is most effective and brings success.

Do not be too assertive at this time, for if you try to direct things, you are liable to become confused or alienated. Take your time. Draw strength from carefulness and you will be doubly fortunate. Focus more on feeling than on action. Be broad and deep in your attitudes so that you can accept everything that comes your way with grace and equanimity. Be receptive and spacious like the ocean; let the river of changing developments flow to you. Allow others to take the lead for now. Strive for a natural responsiveness that is based on inner strength rather than outer show.
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妹妹的最愛 I Ching Hexagram #1

1: Creative Power

The atmosphere is ripe with imagination, inspiration and energy, symbolized by the flying dragon. The dragon is an ancient symbol of an electrically charged, dynamic, arousing force that bodes well for creative initiatives. If your goals are in alignment with the greater good, your actions will meet with success, but this can only happen if you apply yang energy in a positive way. This hexagram, which consists of all yang lines, indicates a good time to take a leadership role, because Creative Power is with you now. But be forewarned: success turns to failure if you let strength turn to arrogance.

Believe in your vision and persevere; everything around you will flourish. Call upon Creative Power and let it work through you. Stay focused on your goals. Do not let yourself be distracted, or you may lose the power available to you now. And remember that when taking action, successful results require good timing.

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【轉貼】學會原諒吧

是阿!道德經與佛經說的都一樣，不是嗎？ 唉，努力學習中！！！
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學會原諒吧，原諒一切可以原諒的，去擁抱辜負了你和你所辜負的人吧。所有的恩恩怨怨，都會讓歲月磨平，所有受過的傷，所有流過的淚，都讓那微風統統帶走吧。


原諒別人是一種豁達，原諒自己是一種釋懷，學會了原諒你會發現你輕鬆了、愉快了、自信了、成熟了。有時候，朋友的一些言語做法也許傷害了你，家人、同事的誤會讓自己苦惱，生活中有很多事讓自己並不如願，甚至痛不欲生，何不換一種思維模式，學會原諒呢？原諒別人是一種豁達，原諒自己是一種釋懷。


你不原諒，是因為不原諒而埋在心中的仇恨，或者不滿往往是出於我們自己的狹隘、自卑、虛榮、放不下面子以及不客觀。就好比我們經常不原諒某人無意中的傷害，不原諒別人不小心給自己造成的不便，不原諒競爭對手的打擊，所有的這些會讓我們痛苦、不開心，我們心中常存著鬱悶之結，我們背負著過去的包袱不能扔下，而影響了當下審視將來的快樂幸福。你一腳踩在了盛開的鮮花，鮮花留給你的腳是花香；你一把推開了一門窗，窗外吹來了一陣清新的芬芳；你翻過了一座山，山那邊的風景更加迷人；你趟過了一條小河，再看見海洋會覺得是那麼的寬闊。


靜靜的想想，有必要嗎？每個人的生命匆匆而過，短短的數十年，好好的享受還來不及，苦也一天，樂也一天，為什麼還要讓這些瑣碎的事一直存在於你未來的生活呢？為何還要讓那些不快干擾我們的視線？為何還要那些棄你而去不會欣賞你的人還存在於你的腦海呢？學會原諒吧。


學會了原諒你我都會發現那些自信、充實、豁達、大氣的人、生活幸福的人比較容易原諒別人。也許正是因為他們不太計較生活中的那些可以原諒的衝突和矛盾，才獲得了良好的心態和所希望的人生吧。仇恨，是一個惡性的循環，原諒，是一個良性的開端。


學會原諒吧，原諒一切可以原諒的，去擁抱辜負了你和你所辜負的人吧，原諒別人是一種豁達，原諒自己是一種釋懷，原諒一切可以原諒的一切，學會了原諒你會發現你輕鬆了、愉快了、自信了、成熟了。所有的恩恩怨怨，都會讓歲月磨平，所有受過的傷，所有流過的淚，都讓那微風統統帶走吧。

【轉貼】道歉

道歉並不總意味著你是錯的，而對方是正確的。
有時它只是意味著相對自我而言，你更珍惜你們之間的關係。
有些傷痕，劃在手上，癒合後就成了往事；有些傷痕， 劃在心上，那怕劃 得很輕，也會留駐於心； 有些人，近在咫尺，卻是一生無緣。
生命中，似乎總有一種承受不住的痛。
有些遺憾，注定了要背負一輩子；生命中，總有一些精美的情感瓷器在我們身邊跌碎，然而那裂痕卻留在了歲暮回首時的剎那。

妹妹加油， 欺負妳的人，早晚終將要付出的。